3 posts tagged “personal”
i promised to post a background story as to why we have a child living with us.
however, mulling through the events of four years ago, i decided to save the bits and pieces for a book i'll be writing soon; still, i'm sharing some of the details here.
sakura is actually imalech's niece.for reasons only known to her, sakura's mother (sylvia) decided to live with her new boyfriend after her first one, who is sakura's dad, left and was never heard from ever again, when she was still three months pregnant with sakura.
sylvia now has an eleven-month-old baby boy with her new boyfriend. she did try to keep sakura with her in the house where she lives with her new family but it didn't work out well for our little one because the old folks, who are sylvia's boyfriend's grandparents, do not appreciate having to care for a child who is not of their own flesh and blood. sylvia noticed how her daughter is not receiving the care that sakura really deserved, because sylvia was tied down to the needs of her new baby and of her boyfriend as well. needless to say, sakura was often neglected as long as she stayed where her mother is staying.
i know that it was a very painful decision for a mother to give her child to other people to care for but that's what sylvia did. as long as she stayed in the house of her boyfriend, as long as she has another baby to fend for, and as long as she does not have a job, she is powerless to raise her daughter in the best possible way. she entrusted sakura's upbringing to imalech and myself, probably hoping that we could give the care that the child really needed but that she cannot give.
each day, i pray that imalech and i would not fail. for sakura's sake.
I have a day off from work because it's Labor Day. Imalech and I have long ago talked of going somewhere with the little one, and today just felt like a good time to go to Silliman University's Marine Laboratory.
After breakfast found the three of us making our way down from our mountains to the city beside the sea.
The Marine Laboratory of Silliman University houses a decent collection of bones from whales and huge fish beached on different shores in the surrounding islands near Negros Oriental. The lab also showcases a giant clam rearing facility; salt-water aquariums; a grouper tank, which is home to a trio of huge groupers and several companion fishes; and what seems to be a taxidermy display of marine animals --- dead, stuffed, and mounted. The lab is also known to be the home of several Philippine crocodiles, and in my college years, the lab also facilitates the breeding and raising of these endemic species of reptiles.
The most memorable experiences have lightnings and thunderstorms taking center stage. Since my family's house sits on the shoulder of the highest peak in the province, which is about more than six thousand feet above sea level, we often get more amount of rainfall than the rest of the areas in the lowlands. And when a tropical cyclone does occur, the wind buffets the peaks at speeds that sometimes reach mach 3 levels, and we, with the thatched roofs and bamboo-slat walls, just close our eyes and pray really hard that no gust would carry off our huts.
If the weather had been warm or blazing right before the rains, we could expect that there would be a light show as thunder and lightning chase each other overhead. During times like this, it's really better to be indoors.
I now really believe that a very good way to know if a storm will break near where you are is to count the seconds that elapse between a lightning's flash and the boom of the following thunder. Divide this by five, and you get the idea how close (or how far), in miles, the storm is. In our mountains, if the count is down to 15 seconds, we just huddle inside the house and listen as the storm gets closer and closer.
Now, I do not believe that lightning would not hit the same place twice. My friend's house has almost always been hit each time there is a thunderstorm. One could see the trail that the lightning took from their front porch, on the side wall of their house, where it cracked some moulding, and on to their old chicken coop. There were singe marks --- testament to where the lightning hit each and every time.
According to wikipedia, lightning heats nearby air to about 10,000 degrees Celsius nearly instantly, which is almost twice the temperature on the sun's surface. No wonder trees in the vicinity die if a lightning struck too close. And the thunder heard when lightning strikes is actually a shockwave.
Lightning has already struck more or less 150 meters from our house --- three times in the past four years. The first year, the shockwave managed to dislodge chunks of the bathroom wall while I was in there taking a bath. In the second year, the lightning happily put the power out as it hit the power line servicing our residence. The latest bolt of Zeus had my partner and me shivering with fright as it struck too close for comfort while we were deep in slumber. It shook the house foundation and, with the usual aplomb, also put the power out.
What power this force of nature has! I could actually hear the billion bolts sizzle as a lightning bolt appears from the sky. No wonder the ancient people really thought that this was a tool that only someone Divine, someone so powerful, could wield.
It is presently the height of the summer season in my country. However, because of the intertropical convergence zone that falls where my country sits in this side of the globe, we suddenly had rains last night. And, as I've said earlier, this condition is perfect for thunderstorms.
Last night as Imalech, Sakura, and myself were already in bed, the storm built momentum; the light show was on, and, as I was happily dreaming, I became dimly aware of a flash, then the sizzling that sounded like bacon being fried for breakfast immediately followed. The house shook, the dogs whined, and Sakura cried in her sleep. The three of us buried our heads under the pillows and didn't really drift off again until the storm has subsided.
In the morning, the skies were still gray, but the weather has cooled enough. There will be no more light shows tonight (fingers crossed).